To ensure you're not putting yourself in danger when you're dating online. I created this page to give you a few tips and since
bondage is involved, therefore extra Pre-Cautions Must be taken at ALL COSTS!!!
Most of these are common sense, but because I know that you will be excited when a member contacts you, little things like these
can be forgotten. Even if it means you're desperate for someone to tie you up tonight....the question is, are you willing to
lose total body control to a stranger???
I hope the following tips will help you out!
1) ONLY Participate In a Trusted Bondage Personal Site! - I highly
recommend Alternative Lifestyle.
2) NEVER give a stranger your physical living address until you meet this person.
3) Don't Rush....Chat and Email as much times as needed....get to know more about this person....Even request to talk on the phone before
you actual meet (You know, sometimes you can learn alot from a person's voice and tone).
4) Do Not engage in any bondage activity the first time you meet this person. Meet them in a public and then tell him/her that you
just wanted to meet in person and not comfortable to start anything yet.
5) Before you go to someones home or dungeon, obtain the physical address of the premise. Give this address to your family or
a close friend and ask him/her to call you in 3 hours time (That should be plenty of time for your first session...) and if
you're not picking up the phone, ask them to come knock on the door because you're definitely there.
6) Do Not Get Into Any "Impossible To Get Out BONDAGE" the first time you meet this person. Just play light
bondage and get to know eachother and then discuss your limits and desires.
7) Once you're comfortable and gained some trust in this partner, you can slightly adjust to harder stuff and make sure both of you
understands clearly the SAFE WORD or a Voice Signal (replacement of the safe word) if a mouth gag is used.
8) Always make sure your partner obeys the safe word and if you're feeling he/she is not respecting the game....leave this person
and do not engage any more BDSM activities with him/her!
9) If the person you met through online bondage dating websites is an alcaholic or takes drugs....Without doubt.....leave this person immediately
and NEVER contact nor engage any BDSM acts with him/her ever again!
Everything else is just common sense really. You know how important "TRUST" is in this game and you know what you should
do to avoid putting yourself in danger. If there's need, ask your friends to contact local authorities!
That's probably why sites like Alternative Lifestyle is a good place to start. You can get to know the person before
you actually meet him/her or not at all.
They also offer heaps of advices, tips on online dating and there's also an active forum which members use to share
ideas, ask questions or just having a chat or two.
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