Ever since i became more involved in BDSM, pain is something that i can
NEVER get enough of. I don't mean like "REAL PAINFUL STUFF" that would hurt myself.
What i mean is enough pain to stimulate my sexual hormones.........and guess what,
i never realized this, but you can actually achieve orgasm through pain!
I'm serious!
I actually had probably the most intense orgasm when my mistress gave me
that "Out of the Earth" Candle wax BDSM session.
Sounds painful, huh?
It was.....but the pleasure i got afterward was not something i can easily explain in words.
How Candle Wax bought me to an intense orgasm?
I'm sure alot of you use nipple clamps on yourself....and it's not too hard to understand why you're getting pleasure from it.
You see, we all enjoy abit of pain, whether it's a simple biting to spanking...pain brings the sexual excitment up....if used
the right way!
You see, my mistress studies the art of torture (No wonder why she's so good at it!) and she told me that pain stimulates your
brain giving you more intense feeling which will lift your alertness, your state of mind and
if you're tied up in bondage, there's nothing you can do but learn to accept and enjoy the pain.
And eventually, you will!
And then, you will want more because you have learnt to cope more!
You will want to try out different stimulating feelings and different pain pleasure sensations.....some of you will learn to enjoy
and others you won't.
It's normal that everyone has different feelings towards diferent experience.
But...it's all about learning to cope.
My mistress told me that through pain....one can become a better person and i must say....i truly agree with her.
Ever since i have become her submissive lesbian slave, my temper has gone down dramatically and my coping for
many daily life troubles became extremely high!
My head is clear and i think faster...
Maybe it's all about discipline
Of course, if you're exploring BDSM...you should always do it with someone you trust and know what they're doing.
Prior communication is very important and Make Sure you use a "Safe Word" or "Safe Signal" to get yourself
out in case the experience gets too painful.
So why do self bondage?